"Can't you do something to help?"
Sandy is working hard to enlist her manager, Keith, in consistently enforcing the company dress code across the division by asking him to talk with his peers. Some who aren't in compliance themselves.
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Lessons Learned:
- Make it a mutual problem-solving conversation
An overall goal is to make this conversation on the dress code a mutual problem-solving session. Sandy has spoken to the employee before, so just repeating that event will not solve the problem. - Be specific
When asking your manager to do something, be as specific as you can about what the action looks like. - Be willing to negotiate
Once you know what you want or need, be willing to talk with your manager about the options. The initial “thing” you want may not be doable, so you want to try to find an alternative that will work. - Stay in the conversation
Even when your managers balks at what you are asking the goal is still to stay in the conversation to be able to find a mutual agreement. If you give up too soon, you will be stuck with the unresolved problem.
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